I Hate That I Always Have to Come Out of the Closet
Why is being heterosexual the default?
In a perfect world, no one would care about who you loved.
You would walk past small shops and people walking their dogs, hand in hand with your girlfriend. No one would care that you were also a girl.
You wouldn’t think twice about wrapping an arm around your boyfriend or looking strangers in the eye when you pass them by on the sidewalk because you too are a man.
But this isn’t a perfect world.
In this world, there’s a girl who’s still afraid to hold her girlfriend’s hand. There are two men who can’t give each other a small peck on the lips without worrying if someone will say something.
We can’t come home and announce we’re dating someone of the same sex. We need to go through an entire coming out process first.
That’s what this entire story boils down to — the process of coming out.
If you’ve never had to come out of the closet — it’s terrifying. Your heart’s pumping, you’re palms are sweaty, and you wonder if the people who are supposed to love you unconditionally really do love you no matter what.
