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What the Hell is Success Anyway?

What if you’re already successful?

Itxy Lopez
4 min readNov 26, 2019

Everyone wants different results.

Success, for some, is being an artist who owns a mansion with ten rooms and two cars. For others, success is running a small business of their dreams and owning a small, comfortable home.

No matter what success looks like to you, there’s one common factor: everyone’s waiting for it.

“You already have The Most. And you’re already The Best.” — Lauren Graham

I’m not making a lot of money, I have about forty email list subscribers, I don’t have a thousand followers, and if you looked at my life, you would say I wasn’t successful.

However, I’d say you’re wrong.

Would my life be easier if I owned a car or made a higher income? Yes. Would it make me feel successful? Yes — but only for a while.

Eventually, the feeling would fade, I’d develop new goals, and I wouldn’t feel prosperous until I reached those new aims. It’d be a never-ending cycle.

You have two options: you can continue to chase success, or you can choose to believe you’re successful now.

I like to believe I’m successful now, despite the “evidence” showing otherwise.

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Itxy Lopez
Itxy Lopez

Written by Itxy Lopez

I’m a self-discovery writer: I write as I grow, make mistakes, and learn.

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